She moved on and I can't tell you how happy I am for her. I just hope that she is making the right decision for herself. Even though I might not be significant in her life but for however brief time I was with her I loved her and still love her so I just hope the best for her.
She is one of the sweetest girls I've known., maybe that was one of the reasons I fell in love with her, I know that love is a very big term but that is what described our relationship. I'm happy for her. She finally has got the courage to face her past and move on. I just hope that this time she made the right decision with this guy. I know some people think that this is unnatural of me to feel happy for her but this is just the way I am. When I congratulated her she said that this is because of the promise I gave her, I was kind of shocked that she moved on so quickly, it wasn't like I forced her to do this thing. I just told her that when you feel you are ready to let someone in your life then you should let him in and try that relationship but also told her to be careful.
Moving on is not an easy thing to do at all, it takes a lot of courage and confidence and trust to put your trust in someone else once again knowing that your past could repeat itself. It takes a lot of courage to move on when you ex hasn't. I was just worried that this should not hurt her if I moved on. Frankly I don't want to move on, I just wan to live in this time and enjoy with my friends who have stuck with me from the start and through this breakup. I just enjoyed this time. It's not about making her jealous but it's about my own satisfaction that I too have moved on with my life, even though I don't have a partner I still have my friends.
Moving on can have many different meanings, like for her it was to get into another relationship and for me it was just getting on with your life and just let bygones be bygones but with a special place for those bygones.
Now I don't know what the correct definition is but I certainly feel that I'm comfortable with my definition of moving on because, let's face it, you don't want to believe in something that you don't want to believe in or something that makes you uncomfortable for that matter. You just want to be the happiest person around and for me believing in what you want to believe is the way to go and yes accepting changes as they come. Change is a part of life and you can't disregard it. It's just there.
Moving on is such a pain in the ass! You have to worry about so may things like will it be OK if your ex comes to know about it, or what will others think about it and blab blah blah..... It's just too complicated and we don't want to complicate things in our life. I haven't come up with some solution, it's not like it's my job to come up with a solution for this moving on thing, but I would certainly like to find this solution to help may others who are in our situation and want a way out.
So for the last line, I would like to quote myself
Moving on is not an easy thing to do at all, it takes a lot of courage and confidence and trust to put your trust in someone else once again knowing that your past could repeat itself. It takes a lot of courage to move on when you ex hasn't. I was just worried that this should not hurt her if I moved on. Frankly I don't want to move on, I just wan to live in this time and enjoy with my friends who have stuck with me from the start and through this breakup. I just enjoyed this time. It's not about making her jealous but it's about my own satisfaction that I too have moved on with my life, even though I don't have a partner I still have my friends.
Moving on can have many different meanings, like for her it was to get into another relationship and for me it was just getting on with your life and just let bygones be bygones but with a special place for those bygones.
Now I don't know what the correct definition is but I certainly feel that I'm comfortable with my definition of moving on because, let's face it, you don't want to believe in something that you don't want to believe in or something that makes you uncomfortable for that matter. You just want to be the happiest person around and for me believing in what you want to believe is the way to go and yes accepting changes as they come. Change is a part of life and you can't disregard it. It's just there.
Moving on is such a pain in the ass! You have to worry about so may things like will it be OK if your ex comes to know about it, or what will others think about it and blab blah blah..... It's just too complicated and we don't want to complicate things in our life. I haven't come up with some solution, it's not like it's my job to come up with a solution for this moving on thing, but I would certainly like to find this solution to help may others who are in our situation and want a way out.
So for the last line, I would like to quote myself
"MOVING ON, A HUGE PAIN IN THE ASS"
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