What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word heartbreak! LOVE, right!? A heartbreak is the one inevitable feeling that everyone is bound to feel once in his/her lifetime, doesn't matter how it comes.
It's the one thing that everyone experiences. It changes you, maybe for better or for worse but it definitely changes you. Heartbreaks are painful, they are supposed to be. From what I understand, keeping expectations is the reason for it. We all keep expectations from someone and when we don't get what we expected we get disappointed or in some cases heartbroken.
One sided love is the biggest reason for a heartbreak and probably the only one, thinking that the other person will understand how you feel is not the way to express love. If it were that simple, hardly any guy would be single. Now this is not a lesson on how to express your love to someone but just pointing out a simple reason, maybe the reason is not that simple at all whatever it may be.
People don't take heartbreaks well and the fact about them is that they aren't supposed to be taken easily; some show it to others and some just keep it to themselves. People say that it's during the bad times that we truly discover ourselves, who our friends are and blah blah blah. It's all true, research shows that after breakups people try things that they always wanted; it changes them at some level and people discover many things about themselves. I discovered blogging, or more like, writing and there's many more things I'm beginning to show interest in now and it doesn't involve girls.
It's not how bad you feel during a heartbreak or the way you take it, it's about how you let it change you. Some people let it change them for the better and some let it change them for the worse like taking Mark Zuckerberg for example, as the movie 'The Social Network' depicts that it was after a breakup or a heartbreak he got the idea for this multi-billion dollar company that is now called 'Facebook'. I don't recall any example of people whose lives were ruined after heartbreaks or breakups more aptly but I know that there are people out there who have had this experience.
I myself have had a couple of heartbreaks and one of them I have suffered very recently and from my personal experience I can tell you that heartbreaks are really tough but in the end don't let it change you for the worse, explore yourself, be carefree, spend more time with your friends, be YOU and maybe just maybe, you just might make the next BIG THING happen. So keeping it short and maybe sweet!
It's the one thing that everyone experiences. It changes you, maybe for better or for worse but it definitely changes you. Heartbreaks are painful, they are supposed to be. From what I understand, keeping expectations is the reason for it. We all keep expectations from someone and when we don't get what we expected we get disappointed or in some cases heartbroken.
One sided love is the biggest reason for a heartbreak and probably the only one, thinking that the other person will understand how you feel is not the way to express love. If it were that simple, hardly any guy would be single. Now this is not a lesson on how to express your love to someone but just pointing out a simple reason, maybe the reason is not that simple at all whatever it may be.
People don't take heartbreaks well and the fact about them is that they aren't supposed to be taken easily; some show it to others and some just keep it to themselves. People say that it's during the bad times that we truly discover ourselves, who our friends are and blah blah blah. It's all true, research shows that after breakups people try things that they always wanted; it changes them at some level and people discover many things about themselves. I discovered blogging, or more like, writing and there's many more things I'm beginning to show interest in now and it doesn't involve girls.
It's not how bad you feel during a heartbreak or the way you take it, it's about how you let it change you. Some people let it change them for the better and some let it change them for the worse like taking Mark Zuckerberg for example, as the movie 'The Social Network' depicts that it was after a breakup or a heartbreak he got the idea for this multi-billion dollar company that is now called 'Facebook'. I don't recall any example of people whose lives were ruined after heartbreaks or breakups more aptly but I know that there are people out there who have had this experience.
I myself have had a couple of heartbreaks and one of them I have suffered very recently and from my personal experience I can tell you that heartbreaks are really tough but in the end don't let it change you for the worse, explore yourself, be carefree, spend more time with your friends, be YOU and maybe just maybe, you just might make the next BIG THING happen. So keeping it short and maybe sweet!
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