Trust me people, 'I don't even consider you a FRIEND', this line isn't something that anyone would want to hear. I mean who doesn't like to have a friend or believe that he's got a friend; we like our lives this way and we don't want that to change but then, change is something that is inevitable. We can always go back to living our lives the way we used to or in this case go back to 'being friends'.
'Not Even a Friend!' is even worse than being an acquaintance because the thing with acquaintances is that there is a common decency to at least acknowledge the other person but when you're not even a friend, you stop acknowledging the other person.
'Not Even a Friend!' is even worse than being an acquaintance because the thing with acquaintances is that there is a common decency to at least acknowledge the other person but when you're not even a friend, you stop acknowledging the other person.
Not acknowledging the person, it's the wrong thing to do, that's what most people would say because we have to be nice to be other people; that's basic manners, right? But how do you be nice to someone when you've just been told that you aren't even considered a friend, I mean that hurts, like seriously hurts. I guess before beginning the friendship you should sign a contract that defines your friendship in the coming years, or you could atleast clear things out like telling the person 'I call you my friend just for the namesake, you're not the real deal.', that seems like a good way to go. Afterall you have to behave with proper manners in front of others.
After sometime, either of them realises that they didn't mean to say something that they said. I don't get it, why would you say something that you didn't want to say or you don't mean to say. Sometimes you'll feel like being 'DANVEER KARAN' and forgiving, it makes you feel like the bigger person and less of an ass. But you know what, it feels good to deliberately be an ass because being genuinely nice doesn't sooth the other person and being genuinely nice gives you the title of a 'WUSS', 'CRY BABY' and many more things, I would tell more names but then I would just be embarrassing myself and I've been there a lot, that's not something that anyone would want to be because let's face it everyone has their limit. You cannot put a smiling face everytime just thinking that the person insulting you is a 'FRIEND'.
Now that you're completely pissed off and when you think that it couldn't get any worse, enter your parents. It's not like parents torture or something but when they say "Chalo beta! Kisi ke ghar jana hai unse milne. Unhe tumhare yaad aa rai hai!", most people get really angry. It's good that relatives care for you and remember you from time to time but I don't get this thing, what's the problem if they come to visit us for a change. I would be happy to have them as guests and not be the guest. But then in the end you really can't do anything about it, you know you can't say NO to your parents because you just can't, you love them.
There are times when you are pissed off and instead of doing the right thing, doing the wrong thing seems like the right way to go. It's good to be bad once in a while, you get tired of being the nice guy, taking shit from people everytime, you simply get tired.
"I AM YOUR FRIEND, RIGHT?"
Every person needs to take one day away. A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any one of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence. Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”
ReplyDelete― Maya Angelou
needing one day or as much time away is ok! but saying 'You aren't even a friend' isn't a way to tell it.
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